Surrogates are incredible women who help people become parents when they cannot carry a pregnancy themselves. Every year, hundreds of families rely on gestational carriers to build their families. This is a deeply collaborative process, and having the right support system is essential for both surrogates and intended parents.
If you are considering becoming a surrogate, it is important to choose the right agency. Here are ten key factors to consider when making your decision.
1. Professional Memberships
Look for agencies that are part of SEEDS, the Society for Ethics in Egg Donation and Surrogacy, and ASRM, the American Society for Reproductive Medicine. Membership in these organizations ensures the agency follows ethical practices and industry standards.
2. Contract Timing
Some agencies require you to sign a contract before presenting you with intended parents. This is not standard across the industry. You do not always have to commit to an agency until you find the right match.
3. Matching Philosophy
Ask how the agency prioritizes matching points versus strict requirements. You should have the opportunity to review intended parent profiles before they see yours. The right agency will allow you to choose the match that feels best for you.
4. Delivery Flexibility
No agency should require you to deliver at a specific hospital or under a specific level of care. You should feel empowered to choose what is safest and best for you.
5. Support Beyond Compensation
A strong agency provides more than financial support. Look for agencies that offer support groups, mentorships, or mental health resources for both surrogates and intended parents. Emotional support is just as important as physical and financial support.
6. Background Checks
Ask what types of background checks are performed on surrogates and intended parents. Agencies following SEEDS best practices will provide transparency and full disclosure.
7. Escrow and Payment Practices
Avoid agencies that hold escrow in-house. SEEDS guidelines recommend using an independent escrow company to protect your compensation. Make sure your payment structure is clearly outlined in your contract.
8. Health and Safety Protections
Understand how the agency supports you in unexpected situations. This includes medical emergencies, vaccination requirements, or any pregnancy-related decisions. You have the right to make choices about your body while being fully supported.
9. Insurance and Protection
Know the difference between short-term and long-term accidental death policies. Make sure the agency’s overall compensation package is comprehensive and fair.
10. Experience and Reputation
Ask how long the agency has been in business and how many cycles they run annually. Check Google or Yelp reviews. Experience matters, especially when challenges arise during a surrogacy journey.
Choosing the right agency sets the foundation for a safe and positive surrogacy experience. Ask questions, do your research, and find a team that prioritizes your safety, comfort, and empowerment.
