At Egg Donor & Surrogate Solutions, we believe the most powerful guidance often comes from those who have been there. Whether you’re considering donating eggs or beginning your journey as intended parents, the words of those who have walked this path before can bring reassurance, insight, and hope.
Below, we’ve gathered real reflections, advice, and encouragement from the heart of our community.
💛 From Egg Donors: What I Wish I Knew
Becoming an egg donor is a meaningful and generous choice—but it comes with a learning curve. These quotes come directly from women who’ve completed one or multiple donation cycles.
On Feeling Cared For:
“I felt comfortable and looked after—not ignored. Helped me not feel anxious. Without you guys, I would have been lost with clinic emails.”
“You guys (EDS) were great, I always felt cared for. First time in my EDS and surrogacy journey I felt appreciated.”
“Thank you Kallie. I’m glad that you are my Coordinator. You always answered me and got to me as soon as possible.”
On Support Systems:
“Have a support system during this process.”
“Talk to other egg donors aside from reading the education Facebook page.”
“Speak up and ask questions if they are in your gut.”
On Time & Commitment:
“Make sure you have the time to dedicate to this process. It’s a lot of juggling.”
“Flexibility in school is 100% needed.”
“Make sure you’re committed and determined to the process—it’s time-consuming.”
“Be ready for the commitment. Make sure you’re fully aware of your role.”
“Consider the whole picture and stew on it a bit. This is a huge commitment.”
On Clinics & Preparation:
“Bring snacks, water, and a phone charger during monitoring.”
“Always ask questions—even if it’s your 6th cycle—each clinic is different.”
“Do a prep before your procedure with a stool softener to help with constipation.”
“Find ways to set reminders for meds, appointments, dosages.”
On Confidence & Joy:
“Egg donation has brought joy and purpose to my life.”
“This is so eye-opening. If you can help, do it. It’s very rewarding.”
“It’s not as bad as you might think. The process is actually pretty easy and straightforward.”
“Go into this with an open mind. It’s very fulfilling—but it’s not for everyone.”
“Make sure you do your research. Although it’s fulfilling, the time commitment is huge.”
“I’ve actually recommended some of my family members to try donating through ED&SS as well because I’ve liked my experience so much!”
👨👩👧 From Intended Parents: Words from the Heart
Parents who’ve built their families through egg donation and surrogacy often carry deep reflections on what helped them most—and what they’d do differently. Here’s what they want others to know.
On Support from EDS:
“You guys kept giving us HOPE.”
“We wouldn’t be here without your team and our sweet donor.”
“We felt lost with the clinic sometimes, but you always called at the important steps. You helped us feel ‘in the know’ through it all.”
“Melissa was incredible—she relayed the right info at the right time.”
“Communication, schedules, and attention to detail were above and beyond.”
On Choosing the Right Clinic:
“Don’t just pick one—talk to other people, compare, and look at reputations.”
“The doctor at Dallas IVF was straightforward, and we felt well cared for.”
“We love our clinic—they never rush and always take their time.”
“Family Fertility at Baylor College of Medicine will only transfer one embryo—good to know in advance.”
On Finances:
“Be proactive with financials. Estimate high on all prices.”
“Pharmacy calls came one after another. I had no idea how many there would be.”
“Billing was frustrating—we never knew what we were paying for.”
“Would prefer a cost estimate earlier in the process.”
On Emotional Prep:
“Nothing is 100% and nothing is guaranteed. One step at a time.”
“Don’t feel guilty about your emotions. They’re all valid.”
“Get counseling if you can. This process can be stressful and even strain your marriage or other kids.”
“Be prepared for anything—there are a lot of working parts that don’t always talk to each other.”
On Choosing an Agency:
“We chose ED&SS because of the clear website and communication.”
“The ‘favorites’ feature and donor videos helped so much.”
“Katy’s communication made a huge difference.”
“Level of attention to detail and personal touch was a standout.”
On Donor Matching:
“Don’t fall in love with your first donor. Things can change.”
“Take time to review everything before signing. Don’t rush.”
“Our donor was in cycle, and we waited. It gave us a much-needed break.”
💬 From the Community, For the Community
This journey—whether you’re donating your eggs or building your family—is deeply personal and rarely easy. But with the right people supporting you, it can also be one of the most fulfilling chapters of your life.
To our egg donors: Your selflessness is seen, valued, and remembered by the families you help create.
To our intended parents: Your perseverance is inspiring. Thank you for trusting us with your dream.
If you’re just beginning your journey, may these voices guide you with compassion, wisdom, and the reassurance that you are not alone.
