We fully support you in pumping and providing breast milk for your IPs. Some of our team members and former surrogates have also done this, so we wanted to share some guidance and tips.
Below are some tips for exclusively pumping. You may already know some of this, so if you do, you can disregard this information. I just wanted to put everything in one place for you!
Essential Pumping Must-Haves from Experienced Surrogates
- Hands-free pumping bra & tank tops
- Car adapter for the pump (perfect for on-the-go pumping!)
- Milk production tracking app
- Flat breast milk storage bags (easier for freezing and shipping)
Choosing the Right Breast Pump
Your insurance company may provide a breast pump or offer a rental, so be sure to check with them before making a purchase. If you have a pump you used in the past and it’s still in good condition, you can absolutely use it once you return home from the hospital. If you’re considering a new pump, look for one that has strong suction and fits your lifestyle—portable, hospital-grade, or hands-free options are great choices.
Milk Storage Best Practices
- Start by freezing 2-3 ounces per bag, then adjust to 3-5 ounces based on the baby’s needs.
- Lay storage bags flat in the freezer—this conserves space and makes shipping easier.
- Communicate with your IPs about milk quantities and preferences to align with their feeding plan.
Cleaning & Sanitizing Your Breast Pump
Proper hygiene is essential when pumping for a surrogate baby. Be sure to clean and sanitize your pump parts regularly. Here’s a helpful resource with step-by-step cleaning instructions.
Shipping Breast Milk (If Applicable)
We recommend shipping 350-375 ounces. One of the most cost-effective methods is overnight shipping via FedEx or UPS. Contact your local FedEx or UPS office to find out their latest pick-up time for next-day delivery.
Direct links for shipping supplies through amazon:
- 245C Thermo Chill Insulated Carton with Foam Shipper, Medium, 17″ Length x 10″ Width x 8-1/4″ Depth $30.00
- Techni Ice HDR 4 Ply Reusable Ice Packs – Hot Packs 10 Sheets $19.95
Shipping tips from former surrogates:
- More milk is better; most surrogates suggest shipping at least 350 ounces at a time, as a larger quantity stays colder longer.
- Ensure there is minimal extra space in the cooler. Place a “Techni-ICE” pack at the bottom, middle, and top. Former surrogates and intended parents recommend filling any gaps with newspaper for better insulation.
- For peace of mind, it’s okay if the milk partially thaws. It can be refrozen upon arrival. However, if it fully thaws, it should be used immediately.
Recommended shipping supplies:
- 245C Thermo Chill Insulated Carton (17″ x 10″ x 8.25″) – approx. $30.00
- Techni Ice HDR 4-Ply Reusable Ice Packs (10 sheets) – approx. $19.95
Reimbursement for Breast Milk
In your SeedTrust portal, select the “Breastmilk Pumping & Shipping and Supplies” task from the dropdown menu and document accordingly. Submit receipts for supply reimbursement, and you will receive payment for the breast milk upon delivery. If your IPs are paying you weekly, request payment from SeedTrust on the same day each week.
Please follow these steps for payment processing:
- Submit receipts for supplies via your SeedTrust portal.
- Select the “Breastmilk Pumping & Shipping and Supplies” task from the dropdown menu.
- Payment for breast milk will be processed upon delivery.
- If payments are made weekly, submit requests on the same day each week for consistency.
Online Support & Resources for Surrogates Who Pump
Many surrogates find online communities and informational resources helpful when navigating the pumping process. Here are some highly recommended options:
Facebook Groups:
- Surrogates Pumping Milk
- Exclusively Pumping Surrogates
- Our Podcast featuring surrogate & lactation consultant
- Pumping Tips
We’re Here to Support You
I hope it goes without saying that I will also be here for you after delivery, so if you have any questions about pumping and shipping breast milk, please don’t hesitate to reach out. We will navigate this process together. You’re getting so close, and I’m thrilled for you! Remember, we’re here to support you every step of the way.