Delivery day is one of the most meaningful moments in a surrogate journey. Whether it’s your first time or you’re a seasoned gestational carrier, having the right items with you can make a world of difference. From comfort essentials to thoughtful extras, here’s what experienced surrogates recommend packing—as well as a helpful list for the new parents preparing to meet their baby for the very first time. (And be sure to download our full list at the link below!)
💛 For Surrogates: What to Pack for Delivery
1. Comfortable Clothing (Post-Delivery)
Think soft, loose-fitting clothing—like a cozy robe, nursing-friendly tops (if pumping), or comfy joggers. After delivery, you’ll want comfort over everything.
2. Your Own Toiletries
Hospital toiletries are basic, so bring what makes you feel human—your favorite shampoo, conditioner, toothbrush, face wipes, chapstick, and hair ties.
3. Slippers or Non-Slip Socks
Hospital floors are cold and slippery! Having something soft and secure on your feet makes a big difference.
4. Snacks and Hydration
Labor is hard work, and post-birth hunger is real. Pack your favorite protein bars, trail mix, or comfort snacks, plus a water bottle or electrolyte drinks.
5. Phone Charger (with a Long Cord)
You’ll likely be in bed a lot. A long cord ensures your phone stays close (and charged) for texts, photos, and updates.
6. A Folder or Small Notebook
There can be a lot of paperwork, discharge instructions, and details. Having a place to store documents—or journal your reflections—can be helpful.
7. Items That Make You Feel Grounded
This might be a photo, a small gift from your family, or something that reminds you of your “why.” Emotional support is just as important as physical.
8. Breast Pump (If Pumping)
If you’ve chosen to pump for the intended parents or donate milk, the hospital may provide a pump—but it’s good to bring your own if you prefer a specific one.
9. Something for the Intended Parents
Many surrogates love bringing a small token or handwritten note to gift the parents on the big day. It’s a simple gesture, but incredibly meaningful.
10. Going-Home Outfit
Don’t forget what you’ll wear home. Think cozy and forgiving (your body just did something incredible!).
“My coordinator helped me think through what would make me feel emotionally and physically supported. Packing early and intentionally helped me walk into the hospital feeling prepared—and excited!”
👶 For Intended Parents: What to Bring for Baby’s Big Debut
Meeting your baby for the first time is magical—but also a bit overwhelming. Here’s what many parents recommend packing:
1. Car Seat (Installed)
This is required by the hospital for discharge. Practice installing it ahead of time so you’re ready to go.
2. Baby Clothing (Multiple Sizes)
Newborn and 0–3 month outfits, plus socks and a hat. Bring a few options depending on baby’s size.
3. Baby Blanket or Swaddle
Hospitals provide basic ones, but many parents love bringing a special swaddle or blanket for those first photos.
4. Bottles & Formula (If Using)
Some hospitals provide formula and bottles—but if you have a specific preference or baby needs, pack your own.
5. Your Own Toiletries & Clothing
You may be staying overnight or longer. Pack like you’re prepping for a hotel stay—comfy clothes, PJs, toiletries, and a phone charger.
6. Camera or Phone (with Charger)
Capture those once-in-a-lifetime moments. Don’t forget memory cards or backup storage!
7. Diapers & Wipes (Optional)
Many hospitals provide these, but check with your coordinator. You might want your own brand or extras for the ride home.
8. Baby Nail File or Mittens
Newborn nails can be sharp! Mittens help prevent accidental scratches.
9. Gift or Thank You Note for Surrogate
While not required, many parents bring a heartfelt card or small gift to express their gratitude.
10. Snacks, Drinks & Patience
There can be a lot of waiting around. Be sure you’re nourished and hydrated—this is a big day for you, too.
“Having someone on our side reminding us what to bring and what to expect helped ease our nerves. The agency’s support made all the difference.”
💬 Final Thoughts
Packing for delivery is more than just preparing a bag—it’s preparing your heart for an unforgettable moment. Whether you’re a surrogate giving the gift of life or a parent getting ready to meet your baby, a little preparation can go a long way in making the day feel calm, connected, and truly special.
FREE DOWNLOAD: Hospital Packing Lists for Surrogates, Parents & Baby
Need help making your checklist? Reach out to your coordinator—we’re here to help you feel supported every step of the way.
