Pashey’s journey into surrogacy began with a simple inspiration: seeing a friend have such a positive and meaningful experience as a surrogate. That experience planted a seed in Pashey’s heart and opened her eyes to the incredible gift of helping another family grow.
At first, Pashey decided to wait. She wasn’t sure if she had finished growing her own family and wanted to give herself time before making such an important decision. But everything changed when a close friend experienced the heartbreak and emotional challenges of IVF. Watching someone she cared about long for a child made Pashey realize just how deeply families can be impacted by infertility. She began to feel that perhaps the time had finally come for her to help.
In August 2022, Pashey had the privilege of carrying and delivering a beautiful baby girl to her intended parents. From the very beginning to the moment she saw her intended parents with their precious baby in their arms, the experience was incredibly special. To this day, Pashey describes her journey as one of the most precious and amazing experiences of her life.
That experience ultimately led Pashey to a place where she could continue helping create families in a different way. Today, she is honored to serve as a Surrogacy Coordinator with Egg Donor & Surrogate Solutions, supporting both Intended Parents and Surrogates throughout their own journeys. With a background in administration within the education system, Pashey brings strong organizational skills, attention to detail, compassion, and a genuine understanding of the surrogacy experience to her role.
Having been a surrogate herself, Pashey understands that every journey is deeply personal and comes with its own emotions, questions, and unforgettable moments. She feels incredibly grateful to now be on the other side of the journey, helping guide and support others as they take steps toward growing their families.
Outside of work, Pashey lives in the Tulsa area with her husband and their two daughters. Their favorite moments are often the simple ones, spending weekends at the sports complex cheering on their girls, camping at the lake during the summer, and gathering around the table for family game nights. For Pashey, family is at the heart of everything she does, and she feels incredibly blessed to have the opportunity to help others experience the same joy.