When people begin exploring surrogacy, most of the focus is on hope, building a family, and finding the right match. But there are also important, and sometimes uncomfortable, conversations that need to happen early in the process.

In this episode, we sit down with Dr. Julie Bindeman, a reproductive psychologist who specializes in third-party reproduction. Dr. Bindeman works with intended parents, surrogates, and donors navigating the emotional and ethical complexities that can arise during family building.

Together, we explore why some conversations in surrogacy can feel difficult to approach, why they matter before a match ever happens, and how intended parents and surrogates can navigate them thoughtfully and respectfully.

Dr. Bindeman also shares how she helps clients walk through these discussions step-by-step, including how conversations often evolve throughout pregnancy.

If you are exploring surrogacy as an intended parent, considering becoming a gestational surrogate, or simply want to better understand the emotional realities of third-party reproduction, this conversation offers insight, clarity, and support.

In this episode we discuss:

• Why certain conversations are essential before matching in surrogacy
• Why these discussions are often difficult to approach
• How reproductive psychologists help guide these conversations
• Why thoughtful communication helps protect everyone involved in the journey

About Our Guest:

Dr. Julie Bindeman is a reproductive psychologist specializing in fertility, third-party reproduction, and the emotional aspects of family building. She works with intended parents, surrogates, and donors navigating complex decisions throughout the surrogacy journey.